Razorjack: Thinking beyond the medium!

THINK BEYOND THE MEDIUM!

This has always been the core of my PU skills. I’ve always ranted about THINKING BEYOND THE MEDIUM.

Unfortunately not too many people understand what I mean when I say “think beyond the medium”. This post is a pretty good example of what I mean.

Anyways let’s roll! :)

One example is body language. I’m sure everybody here has read TD’s post about the 25 points. It’s a great post. Unfortunately I can’t keep track of all 25 things in my head.

My solution was to just say to myself, “Hey this is who I am and I’m gonna do whatever I have to, to achieve my goals! And if someone else doesn’t like it, then fuck ‘em!”

Then I’m totally relaxed and comfortable when I’m out PUing. Then all of the 25 points fall right into place! I’ll even do things like lean in and it still won’t matter. Why? BECAUSE I DON’T GIVE A FUCK!

The medium here is body language, but in order to fix my BL I had to think beyond BL. I had to think about how I felt about myself instead and fix that.

Here’s some insights I’ve learned about myself lately:

1. Falling into a rhythm:

Ok, you boys know that I run a natural game. I just basically go with whatever I feel and run with it. I don’t try to impress, entertain, run routines, etc when picking up chicks. I just go by what I feel, calibrate slightly to the type of chick I’m talking to and just flow with it.

There are advantages and disadvantages to running this type of game. The biggest advantage is that it makes the game very simple and easy. You don’t need to think, you just flow with the interaction.

Another thing is that you fall into a rhythm or pattern of doing things. This can be both good and bad depending on what that pattern of behavior and your goals are.

When out PUing in a club, I always fall into a rhythm. That rhythm dictates my behavior for the rest of the night. For instance, if I hook up with other people before hitting up the clubs, then I fall into what I call “party mode”.

From there on I get into a rhythm of just going out to have fun and not worrying about picking up chicks. I do approach and talk to chicks but I’m not sexual cuz I’m only out to have fun and don’t focus on any particular target. What usually happens is that at the end of the night, either a chick is really interested and becomes aggressive enough to pick me up or I go home alone.

This has been a problem when guys that I’m “teaching” want to meet and hook up before hitting the clubs. Then I fall into what I call “teaching mode”.

This is where I’m just observing, teaching and helping other guys pick up and get laid. All the while I don’t PU for myself, I do it strictly to help other guys out. This is a bad habit that I picked up. Of course the guys I help out think it’s great! :) But for me it usually turns out to be a waste of an evening. What’s really fucked up is that I don’t even recognize that I get into this mode, so I never get out of it.

Now the time when falling into a particular rhythm fucking ROCKS is when I’m focused on going out to PU and not bullshit around. I can #close several different chicks and still pull a chick the same night back to my place or hers. I’ve done it before lots of times so I know it’s possible. The trick was to figure out how to get this to happen EVERY single time I go out. The answer for me is to decide what my goal is for the night, go out by myself and then just fucking do it.

I can still meet guys when I’m out, but when PUing, I’m PUing.

Haha, I remember a time when one of my “padiwans” asked me if some of his friends could join us, cuz they also wanted to improve their PU skills. I didn’t mind as long as they stayed out of my way. This was when I fell into “PU GOD mode”. :)

I was the first one to arrive in the pub. By the time they showed up, I was already into a 5-set. The chicks all shifted positions so the hottest one moved and sat right next to me. We exchanged numbers and she didn’t want me to leave, all before we even hit the club! Not a bad start! :)

I eject from the 5-set to meet the guys. I tell them right away that I’m not teaching tonight and to just stay the fuck out of my way. I was firing on all cylinders that night! I #closed every target I approached, had chicks buying me tequila shots, setting up a day2 with one chick and then making out with her girlfriend, etc! :)

I’m sure these new guys thought that I was a real asshole! :) But unfortunately this is what I have to do in order to achieve my goals.

The medium here is PU consistency, but in order for me to be more consistent at PU, I had to think beyond PU, routines, openers, etc. I had to look at the way I was behaving in certain situations and why. Then look at how that was affecting my game. Then make the changes in my behavior and BAAAMMM!!!

Better PU consistency! :)

2. How I connect with chicks:

Ever since I found mASF and started to seriously get into the game, I’ve had a tough time feeling any sort of connection with any chick, no matter how HOT she was. I would go out to PU and pull chicks weekend after weekend and feel absolutely NOTHING for them. Last year was a record breaking year for me. I fucked more chicks in that one year then all the other years put together. For those of you who are statistic freaks, it was 40+ chicks. I don’t remember the exact number cuz I never really kept count. Fuck, I don’t even remember half of their names!

But the whole time I felt NOTHING for these chicks, a lot of them wanted relationships and would try to snag me into an LTR, but I would just get bored or they’d turn out to be LSE/psychos and I’d leave them.

After doing the find ‘em, fuck ‘em and forget ‘em thing I was worn out. Let me tell you boys, that shit does wear you down. I wanted to find a nice LTR/mLTR and just enjoy my life a little more. But seriously I just couldn’t connect with chicks. They would be attracted to me and connect with me, but I felt nothing for them. I was starting to accept that maybe this is the way things will always be from now on.

But then it finally happened! I always used to meet chicks in the fuck venue. We’d get together and have sex, that’s it. So I decided to change things a bit.

Then I met this one chick and started doing things with her. We had a great time together and connected on so many levels. It was awesome! For the first time since my LTR of 10 yrs ended, I felt something for a chick.

Don’t worry boys, Razorjack hasn’t developed one-itis! :)

The important thing was to figure out HOW I connected with her. For me it was all about getting away from the club scene, and seeing these chicks in a different light, in a different setting, in a different environment and getting to know them for who they are and ACCEPTING that, while doing fun things together.

I was so happy that I FINALLY was able to do this and it felt great! And the best part?

The best part is knowing that I can recreate this with any chick (as long as they are not LSE psychos!) because it is NOT the chick that makes me feel this way, but ME MAKING MYSELF FEEL THIS WAY! HA! What an epiphany! It’s like waking up from a coma! :)

The medium here is connecting with chicks. Thinking beyond connecting with chicks and more about myself and my behavior, was exactly what I needed to do in order to achieve what I wanted.

So after reading this rant of mine, what did ya boys learn?

Well I’ll tell ya then! The lesson here is:

1. First figure out what your goals are, what you want to achieve, where you want to go, etc.

2. Get to know yourself, how you behave, how you do things, how you motivate yourself, how you learn, etc.

3. Once you understand where you want to go and understand how and why you do the things you do, then change that behavior so you can get what you want!

Solving the problems that I described above wasn’t about new routines, openers, qualifiers, affirmations, etc. It wasn’t even about PU!

It’s beyond the medium, beyond PU!

It was about me learning how I behave and why that was preventing me from getting what I wanted. Then I change that behavior and guess what?

My PU problems are solved without even thinking about PU!

So if you guys are having problems with PU, THINK BEYOND THE MEDIUM!

Razorjack

Razorjack: Exploiting Power in PU

Wassup playas!

I realized that Power in PU is something that I’ve talked about with those PUAs
I’ve met in real life but never actually posted about, so here it is.

As a PUA, you have so much more power in PU than you realize. A lot of the
things I write about will be pretty obvious but there is hardly anyone that
fully exploits this to their advantage.

All right boys, let’s roll! :)

1. Chicks are always looking for social acceptance and wanting to climb the
social “ladder.” – Let’s face it this is also true for a lot of guys as well.
Chicks are very social creatures and are dependant on a social structure more
so than guys. If you guys haven’t already noticed, chicks do this without even
understanding it themselves. I know this is obvious to experienced guys, but
I’ll include it anyways.

So how does a PUA use this to his advantage?

Easy! If you’re at the top of the social “ladder” then chicks will naturally be
attracted to you.

What I’ve noticed is that when a person is interacting with others, that person
will either be at the top of the social “ladder” or he/she will be a “climber.”
Another thing is that one person can be a “climber” when interacting with
certain people and at the top of the “ladder” with other people. The amazing
thing is that people when at the top of the social “ladder” usually have
similar behaviors and qualities.

So how do you reach the top of the social “ladder”, well there is plenty of
things that can be discussed here like money, social status, etc. Really though
a lot of that is out of our control, so let’s talk about what you do have
control over and how you can use it to your advantage. First of all being such
a cool and fun person that people like and want to get to know. Another thing
is when people get more out of the interaction than you. Another quality is
that you don’t seek the approval of others. When you qualify others up to your
level, you’re automatically perceived as being higher up on the social
“ladder.” Having women already attracted is also a great thing. Basically all
of the stuff we discuss here as good quality traits for PUAs can fit in here.

2. Chicks love validation – Most of you guys know this already, but there are
very few here that actually exploit this.

So how does a PUA exploit this?

Well if you haven’t realize it already, you CONTROL what kind of validation she
gets from you and HOW MUCH she gets. You set this up so you that she gets
validation when you get what you want from her. This requires calibration and
field experience just like everything else, but is a powerful tool to have in
your PU toolbox. An example is that when you qualify chicks, you’re giving her
validation, but that validation isn’t free. First of all she meets one of your
qualifications in order to get validation. Second her meeting your
qualification is an opening for you to escalate to the next level, if she is to
receive more validation. Oh yeah, validation should be given physically rather
than verbally. This means kino, holding her hand, stroking her hair, moving
closer to her, etc.

3. Chicks want attention – Also very obvious to most guys here, but never fully
exploited.

We all know that chicks want attention, but YOU control when and how much
attention she actually gets as well as what form of attention and under what
conditions! :)

This is very powerful indeed. Let’s say a HOT chick INITIATES an interaction
and is giving you plenty of attention. She makes it clear that she’s interested
in you and wants you that same night! You’re playing it real cool and letting
her give you the attention while you’re thinking about how you’re going to fuck
her. You’re letting her do all the chasing. But then she starts to withdraw
some of the attention and you’re wondering what’s going on. She pulls away more
and more of the attention you were getting and now you see your chances with
this girl disappearing. What happens then?

Well when I was still learning the game, I did whatever I could to try and get
that attention back! Does this sound familiar to you guys?

Guess what chicks do the same thing! You give a chick plenty of your attention
when she’s treating you the way you WANT her to treat you and you withdraw the
attention when you want to correct her behavior. This is power! :)

4. 99.9% of guys out there are boring AFCs – I can’t be sure exactly what the
percent of AFCs actually are in the world, but this is definitely what my
experience tells me about western societies.

When you’re an exciting and passionate guy, you automatically separate yourself
from 99.9% of the guys out there and women notice you instantly! Now if women
see you as a rare find, then they will want to get to know you. And of course
you use this to your advantage! :)

5. Chicks love sex just as much if not more than guys – We’ve talked about this
quite a bit on this forum, but the catch is that women want good sex with guys
they’re attracted to.

If you are a good lover and know how to pleasure women, then you have something
that women WANT! Combine this with the fact that you are NOT like the AFCs out
there and guess what? Chicks can tell that you’re attractive to other chicks
and this is what I call effortless attraction. Chicks are instantly thinking
about sex with you. You haven't even done anything and you’re already ahead of
the competition!

6. Chicks want to meet guys – That’s right boys, chicks want to meet you and
guess what?

If you think about the fact that most guys are AFCs and don’t approach chicks
at all and that the majority of guys that do approach, bore them to death with
interrogation like “What do you do?”, “Where are you from?”, etc well what kind
of competition do you think you guys have?

When you talk about your passions in life and are screening her for
compatibility, you are seen as someone special and NOT like all the other guys!
:)

7. Attractive chicks want to be attractive to ALL guys including guys they’re
not attracted to – I’ve talked about this several times before but never really
explained how a PUA could use this to his advantage.

This is exactly why negs work on hot chicks. When you don’t find them
attractive, they’ll do whatever they can so you’ll find them attractive. I’m
not advocating for or against using negs, do what you feel comfortable with.
What I personally do is show chicks with my behavior and the way I’m
interacting with them, that certain behavior from her makes her less attractive
to me.

If for instance, a chick is resisting when I’m trying to escalate, I will let
her know in so many words that I’m a passionate guy with needs and that if she
doesn’t want a passionate guy that wants to kiss her, have sex with her, etc,
then I’m the wrong guy for her. Basically disqualifying myself, which means
that I’m less attracted to her if she behaves like that.

8. Chicks will adapt to whatever frame you set – The more experienced guys will
know exactly what I’m talking about here.

So this is really for the less experienced guys. Remember point 1 where I talk
about how chicks are looking for social acceptance? Well this is something
similar to that, except that you exploit it to a much greater degree when you
open.

If you’re a cool and fun guy, then she’ll naturally recognize this and want to
get to know you. Now YOU can decide how you WANT to set up the frame of the
interaction. For instance, if you open with an opinion opener then the frame is
neutral. If you open with C&F, disinterest or whatever, then you’re setting up
an indirect frame. Since I run direct game nowadays, I’m setting up a frame,
where it’s about the 2 of us getting together from the very beginning without
bullshitting around.

Whatever frame you set up doesn’t matter as long as you can work within it, the
most important part is that YOU control how you set up the whole interaction.

OK after reading about all the power you have in PU, how silly does it sound to
waste it on trying to entertain or impress your target?

How much sense does it make to bullshit around with trying to attract her or
getting her to chase you instead of actually going up to a chick and setting up
the interaction to where it’s about you and her getting together?

Are you guys getting what I’m saying here? YOU have much more power in a PU
than you know, USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE! :)

Razorjack

Razorjack: How do YOU want to PU?

Wassup playas!

All right boys I feel like my game is about to take a giant leap to the next
level. I’m gonna share some stuff I’ve been working on to improve my game as
well as compare my game before and after these changes.

One word of caution to the newbies:

The stuff I'll be discussing here is WAY over your head. Go out, sarge, get
some field experience and a few notches on your bed post before trying this
stuff.

The biggest key so far is that I’ve started to PU the way I WANT to PU instead
of how I’m supposed to PU. I bet a lot of you are thinking, “WTF are you
talking about, Razorjack?”

OK, what I’m trying to show you guys with this is how you design routines,
tactics/techs, PU styles, methods, etc to suit YOU, instead of you conforming
to someone else’s methods, styles, etc.

All right, roll with me here boys. I used to PU with the notions that:

1. I shouldn’t validate chicks
2. Not give them too much attention
3. I should be indirect, not show interest right away
4. I should qualify chicks before they get attention from me
5. I should kino chicks as a reward for their good behavior
6. etc etc

Now when I read this list, I just see a bunch of rules that I had to confine
to. Now even with these restrictions I did pretty well. I mean I got more pussy
in that 1 year then all of the previous years in my life put together.

But we all want to improve, become better than we are and of course have fun
doing it. What I realized was that this was a very restrictive way to PU.
Seriously guys read that list, it’s so fucking negative and passive, at least
IMO. What happened was that I got a bunch of information in my head and I
CONFORMED to those restrictions without even realizing it.

Now compare that way of PU to this:

How about I PU the way I WANT to PU? What do I WANT to happen? OK here’s a new
list:

1. I WANT chicks to know that I’m a sexual being
2. I WANT chicks to respond positively to me
3. I WANT chicks to be attracted to me FAST
4. I WANT to convey value FAST
5. I WANT chicks to respond in certain ways to me
6. etc etc

OK this list isn’t complete, but it’s a good start. Now we all know that
there’s more than one way to attract, more than one way to convey value, more
than one way to PU, etc.

The easiest way to learn IMO is by example, so now I’ll go over what my game is
like today and the changes I made to get it to where it’s at today.

If we take the first point, “I WANT chicks to know that I’m a sexual being.”

I had to make some changes in my game to achieve this. Before I was very
indirect with disqualifying myself, the chicks etc, cuz I thought that was what
I was suppose to do to get the chicks attracted. Don’t get me wrong, it worked
OK, but now I’m much more direct physically.

Now when I go in with an opener, I usually have my arm around the chick’s waist
before the first word even comes out of my mouth. If there’s 2 or more in the
set, I’ll go straight up to the target and the chick next to her and get in
both of their “personal” spaces and put my arm around both of them. Now my
target knows right away, that I’m not afraid to touch girls, even those that I
haven’t met yet.

Let’s take the next 2 points on the list, “I WANT chicks to respond positively
to me” and “I WANT chicks to be attracted to me FAST”.

OK when I used to take a more indirect approach and style, I’d crack jokes, use
interesting stories, ask opinions, etc to get chicks to respond positively, but
the attraction part was sometimes there, sometimes not. So what I do now with
kinoing chicks from the get go, the chicks FEEL great that a nice looking, fun
guy is interested in them. The majority of chicks out there including those
that have bfs, are married, etc are so fucking lonely and bored, it’s really
very, very sad.

When I go in and kino chicks, I kino them and talk to them like they’re already
my girlfriend. Guess what this does, boys?

The chicks FEEL great about themselves thanks to me, so they respond positively
to me. Not only does this attract the chicks I’m with but other chicks around
me see me with my arms around my targets and that my targets are LOVING it! Can
you say SOCIAL PROOF?!! :)

This is attraction FAST. Don’t forget that my targets notice the other chicks
looking at us and they’re LOVING the attention, so they don’t want me to leave!
:)

Next point on the list “I WANT to convey value FAST”.

I know what you guys are thinking “This is easy, Razorjack, just DHV.” Well
that’s what I thought first as well, but IMO DHV is about you showing value
through stories, gimmicks, etc then not only does your story, gimmick, etc need
to convey value, but the chick needs to pick up on this. That’s too indirect
for me, with a very small margin for error.

Let me give you another alternative.

I just love pleasuring chicks and making them feel good about themselves. So
this is what I do and focus on via kino, massaging, complimenting them on
things other than their beauty, etc. This is direct and conveying value
straight to the target. The best part is that some of this is also seen by
other chicks and of course the other chicks want a part of this as well. The
whole point is that SHE gets more out of the interaction with YOU, than you get
from her. Can you say higher value?

I bet some guys here are thinking, “Well isn’t this just validating her,
supplicating and all that other bullshit?”

My opinion is that if you think it is then that’s the way you’re target will
interpret it. What I do is come from a 10000000 times stronger frame then her.
I actually get as much pleasure from the stuff I’m doing as she does. So in the
end, it’s me doing things that I KNOW we both would enjoy.

OK, next point, “I WANT chicks to respond in certain ways to me.”

I hadn’t even thought about this before, this is something that I decided I
want to inject into my way of PU. I always want her being active and working
for my attention in the PU. I still don’t have this down completely, but I’m
getting better and better at it every time I go out to sarge.

This takes a bit of calibration, but here’s 2 ways I do it:

1. If she’s the party type of chick, then I’ll go direct physically, while
being indirect and disqualifying verbally. The whole time I’ll be saying shit
like “You know HB, if we weren’t so alike, it would be me and you baby, we’d be
like soul mates”, while I got my arm around her waist. This occupies her
logical brain of trying to seduce you, but you still have kino going and
getting her comfortable with you.

2. If she’s not the party type of chick then instead of qualifying her, I’ll
GIVE her all the qualities and behaviors I want in a woman. Then the idea is to
make her live up to those qualities and behaviors. So this will keep her on her
toes and WORKING to stay valuable in your eyes. Of course the whole time my arm
is around her waist and we’re close together physically building comfort.

So am I saying that direct is better than indirect or that you shouldn’t DHV?

NO!!

What I’m saying is that you need to figure out, what it is you WANT and design
routines, style, etc around that, rather than restricting yourself to other
guys' tactics/techs, style, etc.

If you look at most of the stuff I wrote about the changes I made, I broke so
many of the “rules” here on mASF, I should be banned! Shame on you, Razorjack!
:)

Just kidding, what I’m saying is this boys:

NO RESTRICTIONS, NO RULES, NO BULLSHIT

How do YOU want to PU?

Keep on mackin’ playas!

Razorjack

Razorjack: Coming full circle

What I wanted to do with this post was to give you boys a glimpse at how my PU skills have progressed from my pre-ASF days to where I am now.

Hopefully this will help some of you see yourselves in my past experiences and to see your own path to pick up mastery.

All right let's roll! :)

In my early teens, I was never one of the "cool" kids. I couldn't get any chick to look at me, much less the hot ones that I really wanted. Then during the midteens I started changing the way I dressed, throwing on ripped jeans, tank tops, letting my hair grow out, etc, remember this was back in the cheesy 80s! :)

Anyways just changing the way I looked gave me self-confidence and BAM! Chicks started noticing me! I got my first girlfriend, which only lasted about 1 month, but what the heck I got the first one out of the way! :)

Then things could only get easier! :)

I would naturally peacock back then and get attention from chicks all the time. I didn't fuck as many chicks as I would've liked but it wasn't until I discovered ASF that I realized that I was and still am somewhat of a natural.

What convinced me of that was the summer and fall after I graduated from high school. I was working in a movie theatre to save up some money for college. The theatre was in the middle of a shopping mall, so there were plenty of hot chicks everywhere! :)

There were 22 people working in the theatre with me, 12 chicks and 10 guys. Of those 12 chicks, 8 were hot enough to fuck while the rest were just UGs. Of those 8 chicks I got together with 6 of them! :)

Hehehe, one of those 6 happened to be the manager! :)

Now I got to fuck some of them, but due to logistcs I didn't get all of them, it sucks not having a place of your own or your own car! So I feel for you guys in this situation.

Now this wasn't all, I got to know some chicks that worked in the other shops in the mall and they would often drop by the theatre where I worked and say hi. Sometimes other chicks that I met through social circles would call me at work. It was usually one of the other chicks that I had already gotten together with that would answer the phone when chicks would call me.

Man I would give my left arm just to be able to go back in time to see the sparks flying at that theatre! Chicks that were interested or the ones that I already got together with seeing and hearing about other chicks that were interested or that I got together with! Hehehe! :)

Anyways like most naturals, I could only attract chicks that I would meet through work or social circles, but I never had the balls to actually do cold approaches.

So these glory days were over when I went off to college and had to start all over with social circles. Hanging out with guys that never even talked to chicks before certainly didn't help much. So I had a dry spell for a couple of years.

Then I started working as a professional guitar player and playing in bands, etc. Then the chicks were back again! After playing large nightclubs and other top gigs, chicks would be throwing their pussies at us! :)

Anyways this time period didn't require much in terms of PU skills to pick up chicks, but it did teach me a couple of things about how people and chicks, in particular, view society.

Then I met my ex-LTR and fell in love with her. Moved from the good old USA to live in Sweden so I could live with my "beloved". We were together for 10 yrs and I would notice that other chicks were attracted, but I never had the balls to pursue it since I was in an LTR.

Anyways it all ended after 10 yrs and I was back to square one. I had become so dependent on my LTR that I no longer had any self confidence when it came to attracting other chicks.

So I start going out and trying to pick up chicks. Now what was funny was I noticed that chicks were still interested in meeting me. I got together with a few of them but most after having met me would lose interest and I hit semi-dry spell.

Then lo and behold I discover ASF! I was hooked right away and started reading up on everything I could get hold of. I would hit the night clubs and try to implement what I read about.

Now what was messing me up was running attraction routines/gimmicks/scripts etc. I never needed to do that stuff before but I got caught up in the AFC way of thinking. What I never took into account was that I was a natural to begin with, while almost all of the other guys on the board were recovering from AFCness.

So I would run these routines/scripts/etc cuz that was what I read had to be done in order to attract chicks. It felt awkward doing push/pull, DHV and all that other stuff and it was very counter-productive. So the first 7 months I got NOTHING!

Then getting sick and tired of not getting past the first few minutes in a PU, I just told myself to fuck routines and go with whatever I felt.

This is when I noticed the chicks started to respond better to me and 2 months later BAAMMMM! I finally "got it" and one month later I came up with Razorjack Method.

I went back to what I was doing in my late teens when I was working at that movie theatre except now I was applying it to cold PU as well as social circles.

I realized that the way I saw PU wasn't at all like MM, GWM, Juggler, SS, DYD, etc. Even though most successful PUAs usually do things that are very similar to each other, the way they think and how they see PU is very different and that is why there are different PU methods out there.

The following 2 years my game just exploded as I discovered new insights and polished my PU skills more and more. This where I discovered the Asshole Rock Star style and came up with the "How do YOU want to PU" posts. The amount of pussy rolling in was just unbelievable, the amount of chicks that were attracted that I never got to hook up with was even more staggering.

During the last 2 years as I posted more and more on this board I realized that it was difficult for alot of the guys on this board to grasp what my method was about because I didn't have a series of steps or scritps to follow.

There are positives and negatives to this. The positive is that I tried to design a method suited to the individual rather than a one size fits all concept. It's supposed to be natural and dynamic. And in order to be natural, the PUA needs to know who he is on a very deep level so that everything he does is an extension of who he is.

The negative is that since my method is very natural and dynamic, it isn't for guys who want a series of steps or scripts to run.

The other negative thing is teaching guys. I just couldn't tell guys well just do this and this and this and that and you'll get laid. I had to dig into their persona to find out the what the heart of their problems were and then figure out ways to fix that. Let me tell you that it is very time consuming when all you got to work with are posts on an internet forum and that takes alot of effort and energy to do.

BUT I now know that RJM works since I've met and taught guys IRL. It's awesome to watch guys take what you tell them, adapt it to their persona and attract chicks with it! :)

OK so where am I at now?

Well I'm at point where I can naturally attract the hottest chicks at night clubs by just standing around and not doing a damn thing. I won't attract EVERY chick but any guy that goes with me can see the whole night club erupt with AI/IOIs. It's gotten to the point where AI/IOIs are as plain and bland as eating corn flakes for breakfast. I ignore all that shit now and just approach any chick I feel like.

I realized that I can attract most chicks that I find attractive.

Does this mean that I fuck every chick I approach?

ABSOLUTELY NOT!

There is a huge gap between getting initial attraction and getting the chick naked and spreading her legs. There are also other variables like maybe her already having a bf or me screening her out for various reasons, etc.

But I'm still learning and the key area for me to improve upon is creating a strong deep connection with a chick, where I actually feel something for the chick.

It sucks that there is so little information on doing this. But in a way I guess that's the challenge of it all and what still keeps me in the game! :)

Anyways I'm finished with the ranting! :)

Razorjack