Razorjack: Exploiting Power in PU

Wassup playas!

I realized that Power in PU is something that I’ve talked about with those PUAs
I’ve met in real life but never actually posted about, so here it is.

As a PUA, you have so much more power in PU than you realize. A lot of the
things I write about will be pretty obvious but there is hardly anyone that
fully exploits this to their advantage.

All right boys, let’s roll! :)

1. Chicks are always looking for social acceptance and wanting to climb the
social “ladder.” – Let’s face it this is also true for a lot of guys as well.
Chicks are very social creatures and are dependant on a social structure more
so than guys. If you guys haven’t already noticed, chicks do this without even
understanding it themselves. I know this is obvious to experienced guys, but
I’ll include it anyways.

So how does a PUA use this to his advantage?

Easy! If you’re at the top of the social “ladder” then chicks will naturally be
attracted to you.

What I’ve noticed is that when a person is interacting with others, that person
will either be at the top of the social “ladder” or he/she will be a “climber.”
Another thing is that one person can be a “climber” when interacting with
certain people and at the top of the “ladder” with other people. The amazing
thing is that people when at the top of the social “ladder” usually have
similar behaviors and qualities.

So how do you reach the top of the social “ladder”, well there is plenty of
things that can be discussed here like money, social status, etc. Really though
a lot of that is out of our control, so let’s talk about what you do have
control over and how you can use it to your advantage. First of all being such
a cool and fun person that people like and want to get to know. Another thing
is when people get more out of the interaction than you. Another quality is
that you don’t seek the approval of others. When you qualify others up to your
level, you’re automatically perceived as being higher up on the social
“ladder.” Having women already attracted is also a great thing. Basically all
of the stuff we discuss here as good quality traits for PUAs can fit in here.

2. Chicks love validation – Most of you guys know this already, but there are
very few here that actually exploit this.

So how does a PUA exploit this?

Well if you haven’t realize it already, you CONTROL what kind of validation she
gets from you and HOW MUCH she gets. You set this up so you that she gets
validation when you get what you want from her. This requires calibration and
field experience just like everything else, but is a powerful tool to have in
your PU toolbox. An example is that when you qualify chicks, you’re giving her
validation, but that validation isn’t free. First of all she meets one of your
qualifications in order to get validation. Second her meeting your
qualification is an opening for you to escalate to the next level, if she is to
receive more validation. Oh yeah, validation should be given physically rather
than verbally. This means kino, holding her hand, stroking her hair, moving
closer to her, etc.

3. Chicks want attention – Also very obvious to most guys here, but never fully
exploited.

We all know that chicks want attention, but YOU control when and how much
attention she actually gets as well as what form of attention and under what
conditions! :)

This is very powerful indeed. Let’s say a HOT chick INITIATES an interaction
and is giving you plenty of attention. She makes it clear that she’s interested
in you and wants you that same night! You’re playing it real cool and letting
her give you the attention while you’re thinking about how you’re going to fuck
her. You’re letting her do all the chasing. But then she starts to withdraw
some of the attention and you’re wondering what’s going on. She pulls away more
and more of the attention you were getting and now you see your chances with
this girl disappearing. What happens then?

Well when I was still learning the game, I did whatever I could to try and get
that attention back! Does this sound familiar to you guys?

Guess what chicks do the same thing! You give a chick plenty of your attention
when she’s treating you the way you WANT her to treat you and you withdraw the
attention when you want to correct her behavior. This is power! :)

4. 99.9% of guys out there are boring AFCs – I can’t be sure exactly what the
percent of AFCs actually are in the world, but this is definitely what my
experience tells me about western societies.

When you’re an exciting and passionate guy, you automatically separate yourself
from 99.9% of the guys out there and women notice you instantly! Now if women
see you as a rare find, then they will want to get to know you. And of course
you use this to your advantage! :)

5. Chicks love sex just as much if not more than guys – We’ve talked about this
quite a bit on this forum, but the catch is that women want good sex with guys
they’re attracted to.

If you are a good lover and know how to pleasure women, then you have something
that women WANT! Combine this with the fact that you are NOT like the AFCs out
there and guess what? Chicks can tell that you’re attractive to other chicks
and this is what I call effortless attraction. Chicks are instantly thinking
about sex with you. You haven't even done anything and you’re already ahead of
the competition!

6. Chicks want to meet guys – That’s right boys, chicks want to meet you and
guess what?

If you think about the fact that most guys are AFCs and don’t approach chicks
at all and that the majority of guys that do approach, bore them to death with
interrogation like “What do you do?”, “Where are you from?”, etc well what kind
of competition do you think you guys have?

When you talk about your passions in life and are screening her for
compatibility, you are seen as someone special and NOT like all the other guys!
:)

7. Attractive chicks want to be attractive to ALL guys including guys they’re
not attracted to – I’ve talked about this several times before but never really
explained how a PUA could use this to his advantage.

This is exactly why negs work on hot chicks. When you don’t find them
attractive, they’ll do whatever they can so you’ll find them attractive. I’m
not advocating for or against using negs, do what you feel comfortable with.
What I personally do is show chicks with my behavior and the way I’m
interacting with them, that certain behavior from her makes her less attractive
to me.

If for instance, a chick is resisting when I’m trying to escalate, I will let
her know in so many words that I’m a passionate guy with needs and that if she
doesn’t want a passionate guy that wants to kiss her, have sex with her, etc,
then I’m the wrong guy for her. Basically disqualifying myself, which means
that I’m less attracted to her if she behaves like that.

8. Chicks will adapt to whatever frame you set – The more experienced guys will
know exactly what I’m talking about here.

So this is really for the less experienced guys. Remember point 1 where I talk
about how chicks are looking for social acceptance? Well this is something
similar to that, except that you exploit it to a much greater degree when you
open.

If you’re a cool and fun guy, then she’ll naturally recognize this and want to
get to know you. Now YOU can decide how you WANT to set up the frame of the
interaction. For instance, if you open with an opinion opener then the frame is
neutral. If you open with C&F, disinterest or whatever, then you’re setting up
an indirect frame. Since I run direct game nowadays, I’m setting up a frame,
where it’s about the 2 of us getting together from the very beginning without
bullshitting around.

Whatever frame you set up doesn’t matter as long as you can work within it, the
most important part is that YOU control how you set up the whole interaction.

OK after reading about all the power you have in PU, how silly does it sound to
waste it on trying to entertain or impress your target?

How much sense does it make to bullshit around with trying to attract her or
getting her to chase you instead of actually going up to a chick and setting up
the interaction to where it’s about you and her getting together?

Are you guys getting what I’m saying here? YOU have much more power in a PU
than you know, USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE! :)

Razorjack